Crush - a brief and usually temporary intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable. A crush is meant to be light and fun. It's never that serious. It is however vital to be cautious it does not move from being fun to being downright dark and destructive - the line is very thin.
I've had a few MAJOR crushes the last couple of years and now that I look back, I can't help but be amused at how they got me behaving like a sweet 16. {Disclaimer: They were all light & fun. There was no stalking neither was there any damage caused LOL}
One bright sunny afternoon during lunch break while lounging and having lunch at the office balcony overlooking the parking lot, a towering well groomed character {let's call him TDH - Tall| Dark| Handsome} walks across to the other side of the office block and I almost choke on my food. His steps, carefully calculated and each touching the ground with so much confidence signalling a go getter who knows what he is about. Next thing I remember was the plate of food being tossed aside and I quickly hustled my colleagues to run and behold God's greatest gift to humanity. The next couple of minutes were characterized by commotion as we ran to the balcony to feast on this sumptuous eye candy. You should have seen us jostling for a good spot to make sure we don't miss anything. Needless to say, lunch breaks were never the same for the next couple of weeks as they were now characterized with dashes to the balcony for a glimpse of TDH anytime he was spotted. {You know how gals look out for each other *wink*. Anytime a colleague spotted him, they would quickly hustle me to rush see him}.
There is nothing wrong with feasting on eye candy once in a while, it doesn't come along every other day. I mean....ain't nothing wrong with beholding God's creation from afar, no harm being done yeah. I however knew the plot had thickened when I one day bumped into a door checking this poor soul out :-).
I've had a few MAJOR crushes the last couple of years and now that I look back, I can't help but be amused at how they got me behaving like a sweet 16. {Disclaimer: They were all light & fun. There was no stalking neither was there any damage caused LOL}
One bright sunny afternoon during lunch break while lounging and having lunch at the office balcony overlooking the parking lot, a towering well groomed character {let's call him TDH - Tall| Dark| Handsome} walks across to the other side of the office block and I almost choke on my food. His steps, carefully calculated and each touching the ground with so much confidence signalling a go getter who knows what he is about. Next thing I remember was the plate of food being tossed aside and I quickly hustled my colleagues to run and behold God's greatest gift to humanity. The next couple of minutes were characterized by commotion as we ran to the balcony to feast on this sumptuous eye candy. You should have seen us jostling for a good spot to make sure we don't miss anything. Needless to say, lunch breaks were never the same for the next couple of weeks as they were now characterized with dashes to the balcony for a glimpse of TDH anytime he was spotted. {You know how gals look out for each other *wink*. Anytime a colleague spotted him, they would quickly hustle me to rush see him}.
There is nothing wrong with feasting on eye candy once in a while, it doesn't come along every other day. I mean....ain't nothing wrong with beholding God's creation from afar, no harm being done yeah. I however knew the plot had thickened when I one day bumped into a door checking this poor soul out :-).